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January, 2006

January, 2006

I know that you are all busy. Your days are filled with an endless stream of pressing matters. So my current focus is to bring out what I teach in the most efficient and easily received manner possible. The challenge is that I'm not willing to offer superficial quick-fixes or simplistic step-by-step approaches. Knowledge of life is subtle. Trying to put it in a box may give a false sense of knowing at first, but ultimately prevents you from really attaining the deeper sort of knowledge for which every individual yearns. My commitment is to helping you attain that deeper knowledge.

What follows is an article on a concept I call "Relationship with." Real knowledge never boils down to a handful of facts. It comes from an ongoing exploration into abstraction. This is so for the concept of "Relationship with." as is with every concept in life. A healthy relationship with anything is crucial to an ever-deepening understanding of it. Needless to say, a healthy relationship with the following article is crucial to an ever deepening understanding of it. We will from time to time revisit this and other concepts. In so doing, your knowledge and relationship with concepts in general will continue to change and deepen as time goes by. To evolve your relationship with life is to evolve your life.


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Key to Success: Relationship with...

I was once driving down the road and another driver pulled his car right in front of me, running me right off the road onto the shoulder. I was mad and thought, "What a jerk." But then the next moment I began laughing. There is the reality that the guy's a jerk. But, then again, you never know.

The Relationship with. principle permeates everything. All too often, the current state of the object of our attention receives too much of our attention. In actuality, the quality of our relationship with that object is critically important. A healthy Relationship with. is the key to success. This is true of our relationship with people and situations, be they personal, social, or global.

A healthy Relationship with. is not just an attitude or philosophy to cling to. Developing a healthy Relationship with. starts with cultivating a healthy life-a life freed from conditioning.

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Upcoming Surya Winter Kaivalya Meditation Retreat

There is still room at the Surya Winter Kaivalya Meditation Retreat in the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains!

  • Dates: Sunday, January 29 - Sunday, February 5, 2006.

  • Location: YMCA Blue Ridge Assembly in Black Mountain, NC.

    Kaivalya is the infinite silence dwelling within the Transcendent. It's the field of limitless bliss and profound rest. Come experience deep rest to the mind and physiology and enjoy enhanced vitality and mental clarity.

    Winter retreats are deeply inward programs for those intent upon their spiritual growth and healing. Winter is a natural time to settle and go inward. It is a time of order and coherence. In summer, a drop of water is an amorphous liquid; in winter, it is a magnificently geometric, crystalline snowflake. Surya Winter Meditation Retreats emphasize group meditation and silent time alone.

    Also, dates have now been set for the next summer retreat:
    Friday, August 11 - Friday, August 18, 2006.

    Learn more about Surya Meditation Retreats / Register Online

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    An Excerpt from The Golden Frog by Michael Mamas

    In The Golden Frog, the reader is allowed to experience a variety of realities. With each reading, the reader is able to experience more.

    The following excerpt takes place in a personal development class given by Nathaniel. Partway through the class, Bruce speaks up...

    From Chapter 38 - The Churning Process

    I was getting a little bored with Nathaniel taking up so much class time working with the issues of all these different people. I was there to work on myself and didn't really care much about these other people. Finally, I decided to say something and put my hand up.

    "Nathaniel, I don't really feel like I'm getting what I want here."

    "Entertainers give people what they want. Teachers are more concerned about giving people what they need," he smiled back.

    "Nathaniel, I understand that, but I'm a therapist and I've already done a lot of personal process work. Many people in this group are beginners. I want to progress and I wonder if a more advanced class might be more suited to my needs."

    Nathaniel looked at me before responding. "What evolves us is the cultivation of our 'relationship with...' What is important is not the 'thing,' so much as it's our relationship with the thing. By exploring your 'relationship with' the group consciousness, you will evolve. Everyone in the group chips away at one another's identities. At the same time, the group creates a space that supports each and every individual in the group."

    "But Nathaniel," I interrupted, "What about when people interrupt your talks to ask you things I already understand?"

    "Then you can benefit in many different ways. For one, by watching how I work with them. You can also benefit by feeling into and exploring any impatience you may be feeling with others. It does not matter if you're in front of the boat or in back of the boat; that boat will take everyone to shore." He paused to look around the group.

    I felt scolded. He did it nicely, though.

     

     

    Learn more about The Golden Frog

    Upcoming Lectures

    ImageFree Introductory Lecture
    Michael will be giving a free introductory talk in La Jolla, CA on Saturday, January 14.

    Michael's Upcoming Trip to India
    Michael Mamas will soon be leaving for a three-month tour of India which includes private talks with influential people and established spiritual gurus, invitations to address the followers of these individuals, and talks to the general public. The trip will be filmed as part of a documentary produced and shown in the U.S.

    One of the places he'll be speaking is at the India International Centre in New Delhi (www.iicdelhi.nic.in) on Saturday, February 11.

    In recent years speakers at the India International Center have included His Holiness the Dalai Lama, Sogyal Rimpoche, Julius Nyerere, Willy Brandt, Henry Kissinger, Lee Kuan Yiw, Shimon Peres and Henry K. Cardoso. The talks and symposia range from international and civic affairs, ethics and human rights, environment, ecology and wild life to dimensions in science and medicine, to religion, philosophy, culture and literature.

     


    It is characteristic of our species to want something to cling to, something concrete, something definite, something black and white. Unfortunately, life is not like that. Working with the concepts I offer opens the way to create a new relationship with life, one in which you rest into nature's comforting arms of abstraction. I invite you to continue working with the notion of Relationship with.. In time, we will revisit that notion together.

    Fondly,

    Michael Mamas